Injustice Righted in Church
Employment
By Eloise Rosenblatt, R.S.M., Ph.D
The pastor indicated he wasn’t going to renew her contract as
parish school principal. Marie (not her real name) was about to join the ranks
of experienced, qualified, successful women "bumped" from their church leadership
positions by a new pastor. Marie had been in elementary education for nearly
forty years. On her only real sabbatical after thirty years, she sat in university
classes and earned an M.A. In Catholic School Administration. She had been
principal now for eight years in a school whose population was largely Hispanic,
and one of the economically poorest in the entire diocese. Yet the school
was peaceful and orderly; teachers were qualified; parents were informed and
involved.
Marie nurtured the spiritual life of her staff and took students
on field trips. She sponsored the 75th anniversary celebration of the founding
of the school which brought back hundreds of alumni. She didn’t have a bookkeeper
or many financial resources. To keep cost down, she typically did the work
of two women. In one year, she raised $50,000 for tuition grants, repairs
and program enhancements.
In spite of all her accomplishments, her relations with a new
pastor on his first assignment grew strained after three years. He began to
treat her coldly. He would not acknowledge her accomplishments. He reminded
her on various occasions that he was the pastor, and that he had ultimate
decision-making authority in school matters. To prove so, he prohibited an
annual fund-raising event sponsored by school parents because he said it would
interfere with the financial interests of the parish.
National Epidemic of Firings
The handwriting was on the wall. "He’s getting ready to fire you," I told
her. "If you don’t leave on your own, he’ll look for any excuse to do it."
This had happened to a good number of religious women across the country already.
My laywomen friends had also suffered through this experience. It was a national
epidemic affecting many Catholic women. Pastors seemed to want compliant,
submissive, "Yes, Father" women in parish and school administration, even
though these had less experience than their predecessors who got fired. The
more competent a woman was, the more likely she was to lose her job.
I saw a pattern: competent women didn’t fight back. They didn’t
know what their recourse was, and no one fought for them. Where could women
go if they had complaints about a pastor’s arbitrary decision-making? Did
pastors really have absolute authority over persons working in parish facilities?
That was the prevailing myth. Women whose complaints I heard in the past feared
they’d be blackballed and never get hired anywhere if they challenged a pastor’s
actions.
If they didn’t blame themselves, other women did the blaming,
advising them, "Well, if you hadn’t said this or done that." The pastor was
king who held the keys to the kingdom. Women believed and propagated the myth.
Victims of firings "offered it up," blamed themselves for not being able to
get along with emotionally or verbally abusive pastors, got depressed or physically
ill, accepted the financial loss of pitiful salaries, and tried to find a
job in another parish. Their faith was precious to them. Serving the church
was a spiritual commitment.
Injustice of Unilateral Conditions
Alarm bells went off in my head when Marie told me the pastor had decided
to impose some unilateral conditions on her contract before he would sign
it for the following year. She was supposed to become fluent in the language
of the local community. She was supposed to attend (his) parish events. He
didn’t designate which ones or how often. He would review her "progress" several
times and would decide if this woman twenty years his senior "measured up."
These conditions, I pointed out, insulted her and were not related
to her duties as school principal. Such conditions had never before been part
of her contract. They were not the standard for any other diocesan school.
They were not required by accreditors who periodically assessed the school’s
performance according to state-established criteria. Thus, to impose them
on Marie was discriminatory. The pastor was behaving like a maverick, making
up his own rules. He was acting according to a myth that a pastor was independent
from anyone outside his parish telling him what to do, and further, that he
was entitled to do as he pleased with persons working on "his property."
I told her not to sign anything and to take her concerns to
her local bishop and to other diocesan officials. Above all, I emphasized
that she must not be silent. The pastor needed to be held accountable to a
civil standard outside his personal impulses and whims, especially when it
concerned an employment issue. It was no longer true, I said, that "a man’s
home is his castle," or that a parish was a pastor’s fiefdom. A woman was
neither a piece of furniture in his house, nor a serf toiling on his personal
estate. We had to challenge this humiliation of women.
Systemic Analysis of Employment Abuse
For my part, I decided that I would not allow this pastor to fire my friend
Marie without a fight. Where would I start? I did a systemic analysis, assessing
the overall dynamic of the situations involved. Priests seemed to be giving
each other permission to do this. Bishops and other priests weren’t "interfering";
their non-involvement promoted the abuse. A male-dominated ecclesial culture
was in effect sponsoring this "rite of passage." A new pastor proved his mettle
by "off-ing" a nun or an experienced female minister, then replacing her with
whomever he chose.
Was it really for "the greater good of the Church" that this
pattern continue? Across the country, parishes were losing the competent leadership
of women and suffering disruption so that a pastor could prove he held ultimate
and unchallenged authority. Religious communities were losing hundreds of
thousands of dollars in needed salaries to support their retired and elder
members.
I took account of statistics. Women, both lay and religious,
supply over 82 percent of un-ordained ministry in the church. Unjust employment
practice in the church is a woman’s issue.
Taking Action
I decided we had to shatter the myth that the pastor was not accountable for
his decisions. If a priest could be prosecuted under civil law for pedophilia
or embezzlement, he should be accountable for his employment practices. If
a pastor were a manager at a local bank, he couldn’t get away with capricious
hiring and firing of personnel. We should be measuring hiring and firing practices
against civil standards.
I asked Marie to supply me with the names of persons in the
regional power structure. I wrote several letters to her local bishop to complain
about Marie’s treatment, reviewing all her accomplishments. I wrote to the
pastor to tell him I didn’t like how he was dealing with my friend. I sent
copies of the letters to the superintendent of the diocesan school office
(which issues school contracts) and to the vicar for women religious.
Reasoning that men listen to other men before they listen to
a woman, I asked a retired bishop friend to make a telephone call on behalf
of Marie to the resident bishop. He did. I advised Marie to meet face to face
with the bishop, which she did. I told her she didn’t have to face her capricious
pastor alone. So she made a round of visits and telephone calls. People in
authority began talking to each other to solve the problem that had come to
their attention. I was not going to allow the pastor the protection of secrecy
and privacy. I wanted as many people to know and become involved as possible.
Additional Recourse
If this failed, she could get help from another office at the Chancery - the
tribunal. The tribunal offers services other than annulments for marriages.
If the officials at the diocesan school office failed to intervene effectively,
Marie had the right to protest an unjust decision by the pastor as unjust
and seek arbitration. She could officially ask for a canon lawyer to act as
her advocate and to be her official mediary in resolving the dispute. As a
woman, she had the same rights as all the baptized in the Church, from layman
to Pope. Canon law affirms her right to appeal a decision, to obtain official
representation by a canon lawyer, and to seek an official ecclesial inquiry
and hearing of her complaint.
A Happy Ending
The outcome? The pastor was invited to come to a meeting at the diocesan office
with school officials and Marie to discuss her contract. He decided not to
attend the meeting. Instead, he met with Marie personally. He withdrew all
his conditions. He maintained that he had never intended to block her contract
or let her go. He said he intended that she continue, as before, to serve
as principal. She reported to me later that she and the pastor have now established
a more collaborative basis on which to carry on their respective but interrelated
ministries on behalf of the people of the parish.
Eloise Rosenblatt, the Associate Dean of Faculty at the
Graduate School of Theology in Berkeley, CA, is also a law student at Santa
Clara University.
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